I heard this statement from someone close to me and was honestly quite saddened by it. They met at a party and there was an attraction. An attraction of her to him because he could shower her with anything she wanted. In return, she gave him herself when he needed it. Blady whore!
She is very happy with Gucci, Prada and maybe a BMW Z4 coming up. Both are young in their early 20s, just graduated and starting out their career. Also as a couple and in their relationship(if you can call it healthy), have a new chapter to learn and grow together. For sure, there are going to be good and bad times. But I guess all of this is blinded by wealth for her and reasonably good looking body for him.
I honestly cannot stand this sort of symbiotic nature of such people. The reason I say symbiotic is because both are benefitting in their own narrow minded way. Parasiting would happen if one is gainning from the other and another at a losing end. Oh, I have a friend who is a victim of parasited relationship. I trully feel sorry for him.
A relationship should be one founded on common ground, mutual understanding, respect and unconditional love in the context of a romantic relationship. These are the fundamental foundations that strengthen a relationship.
What if there was another richer guy? What if there was another hotter girl? Would they part because of this and find new "love"?
These are people who do not understand the true meaning of life and are so caught up in the material world where possession defines power. How about the power of love? Totally non-existent in their books!
They think they are mature enough and regard themselves as well established adults but they have lots to change in their mentality. The truth is, they are immature, do not have general knowledge and entirely confused individuals. Their lives are meaningless and empty within.
It is hard to advise such people and it will only seem wise for them to come to you first for advise. That time may be too late for them to realize. They could have been hurt badly physically and emotionally.
Life is short. If we are uncertain about things and need clarification, we should take the initiative to find out from books, internet, subject experts, religious groups, family members and friends. Then, spend the rest of lives living effectively!
I feel that religion plays an important role because it covers so many aspects of life. Going to church for the sake of going is meaningless unless one wants to take the opportunity to learn, deepen ones understanding about life, contribute as a member of society and to find inner peace from within.
May God pray for these lost people to find meaning and see the world in a new light!
